You don't need to smother someone with compliments, hold doors for them or be overly generous. If they like you, they anyways will.
Wednesday, October 31, 2012
Saturday, October 27, 2012
Mind the mind...
Funny thing our tiny little mind is...can make us laugh at a funeral or cry at the gay-est of all occasions. And never does it stop racing....nope never!
What's more...it renders the body redundant...absolutely!!! Try working out with your mind at your lover's or try dancing at a club with fear /anger. I would actually alter the quote "wherever you go, go with all your heart" "wherever you go, go with your mind too" unless it's already there before u reach! ;) quite a possibility! It's always ahead of us.... Always!
What's more...it renders the body redundant...absolutely!!! Try working out with your mind at your lover's or try dancing at a club with fear /anger. I would actually alter the quote "wherever you go, go with all your heart" "wherever you go, go with your mind too" unless it's already there before u reach! ;) quite a possibility! It's always ahead of us.... Always!
Thursday, October 25, 2012
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
"We live among Heartbreaking Tragedy, Ongoing War, Negative emotions like Fear, Hatred, Indifference, Jealousy and Insecurity; Terrible crimes, a Loss of Morality, Adults killing Children, Toxic Thinking; Broken, Strained and Estranged Relationships; and a Pervasive feeling of Disconnection and chaos. No wonder we feel Depressed, Anxious, Angry, Lost, Exhausted, Afraid, Unmotivated and Confused. It can be Difficult to Hold on to Hope. Sometimes it's easier to believe that being Bad is Better. But I don't think that's True- Each One of us can make a BIG difference by Changing Ourselves, Our Relationships, Broaden our Perception and Our Thinking. Let's Embrace Love, Forgiveness and Light to evolve towards Perfection and Peace. Hug, Kiss, Cuddle- Laugh, Smile, Celebrate Each Other... We are Love.."
- ND
- ND
"Only Time will Determine when and How you're going to Move on. Sure, it might not be right away like you want it to be, but eventually One day you'll wake up and realize that Somewhere along the way, that piercing feeling you've always felt inside your chest faded and went away while you were too Busy living Life to notice. I'm not afraid of Heights, Deep water, or Love. I'm afraid of Falling, Drowning, and a Broken Heart.."
- A dear friend's writing
- A dear friend's writing
Monday, October 15, 2012
That's not what they say
Everybody can grow up and get mature, it's remaining a child at heart which is difficult....
H
H
Is it?
Love should not be that which renders you useless, incapable of action....It is that which motivates you to achieve higher goals and drives you to work better.
-H
-H
Saturday, October 13, 2012
no reason, no season....
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. Experiencing love or true love is one of the most happiest thing a person can experience in life. No words can express how happy that person is...
You don’t have reasons for loving, you just do."
-Anonymous
You don’t have reasons for loving, you just do."
-Anonymous
It's him...
Am not aware of the person who wrote the below lines, but I am sure, it's a guy!
"You may not be his first, his last, or his only. He loved before, he may love again. But if he loves you now, what else matters? He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits being human and making mistakes, hold on to him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break: His Heart.
So don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, its all a myth, folks!!"
"You may not be his first, his last, or his only. He loved before, he may love again. But if he loves you now, what else matters? He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits being human and making mistakes, hold on to him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break: His Heart.
So don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, its all a myth, folks!!"
Live Longer Folks!
I am a lot into 'lists' these days.....So here's a splendid one I stumbled upon....
Mine (still a rough draft) to be published soon..... Till then...enjoy this!
1. Don't cut out anything. If it exists and you like it, fine, just use moderation, that's the key word. More stress is caused by denial than this world dreams of.
2. Don't push yourself. As you get older slow down and ignore all those experts who tell you about cardio whatever because crazy exercise is close to manslaughter...you have nothing to prove, so sweat but don't sweat it.
3. Drop envy as a companion. The green eyed monster eats your heart out and nibbles at your mind like a rat. You cannot be the other person so what's the point of working yourself over it.
4. Listen to your body. it always gives warning signs. Crisis is seldom sudden, it happens because we duck the signs, like it's only indigestion when it is not. It's your life...sobering thought...they'll be talking on their mobile phones at your funeral.
5. Stay out of debt. Credit cards can kill you and there is nothing worse and more humiliating than being chased for money...as corrosive as rust.
6. Smell the roses. No point having a garden if you won't stop to enjoy it. Beyond a certain degree of wealth and success it is all repetitive so find repose, rest, relaxation and get a hobby even if you are 72...hobbies are good medicine.
7. Laugh. It is incredible how problems shrink when you can funny mirror your life and yourself and all the pomposity around you. Be serious but don't take props seriously. Your designation, your seat of power, your perks, your silly car brand, your address, these are all passing fancies or sad, little crutches.
8. Don't drag the past with you. That's why it is the past. Yesterday. Learn from it but if you insist on carrying it into the present and the future all you'll end up doing is bleed.
9. Save your time. It is precious. Don't squander it on inconsequentials be that events, people, hangers on, projects etc. Use it for family. Family counts.
10. Do something good. For children. For the world you live in. For an individual. For an animal. Nothing like a good deed to get the adrenalin flowing...goodwill is so under-rated.
Bikram Vohra
Mine (still a rough draft) to be published soon..... Till then...enjoy this!
1. Don't cut out anything. If it exists and you like it, fine, just use moderation, that's the key word. More stress is caused by denial than this world dreams of.
2. Don't push yourself. As you get older slow down and ignore all those experts who tell you about cardio whatever because crazy exercise is close to manslaughter...you have nothing to prove, so sweat but don't sweat it.
3. Drop envy as a companion. The green eyed monster eats your heart out and nibbles at your mind like a rat. You cannot be the other person so what's the point of working yourself over it.
4. Listen to your body. it always gives warning signs. Crisis is seldom sudden, it happens because we duck the signs, like it's only indigestion when it is not. It's your life...sobering thought...they'll be talking on their mobile phones at your funeral.
5. Stay out of debt. Credit cards can kill you and there is nothing worse and more humiliating than being chased for money...as corrosive as rust.
6. Smell the roses. No point having a garden if you won't stop to enjoy it. Beyond a certain degree of wealth and success it is all repetitive so find repose, rest, relaxation and get a hobby even if you are 72...hobbies are good medicine.
7. Laugh. It is incredible how problems shrink when you can funny mirror your life and yourself and all the pomposity around you. Be serious but don't take props seriously. Your designation, your seat of power, your perks, your silly car brand, your address, these are all passing fancies or sad, little crutches.
8. Don't drag the past with you. That's why it is the past. Yesterday. Learn from it but if you insist on carrying it into the present and the future all you'll end up doing is bleed.
9. Save your time. It is precious. Don't squander it on inconsequentials be that events, people, hangers on, projects etc. Use it for family. Family counts.
10. Do something good. For children. For the world you live in. For an individual. For an animal. Nothing like a good deed to get the adrenalin flowing...goodwill is so under-rated.
Bikram Vohra
Happiness is Homemade
"My simplest advice to everyone out there; if it hurts, let it go. Life is way too short to waste any time at all. You're only young for so long, and every moment you spend dwelling on the things that only cause you to hurt, is precious time wasted where you could have been out adventuring around, making more memories to look back on. Nobody wants to remember the nights they sat around crying. They look back at the adventures they had while they were young. The good nights, days, whatever.
And when you find someone where it feels like the first time every time, don't let that go. Don't give up without a fight. To hell with anybody who makes you feel like you're ordinary. Don't waste your time. And I am not kidding, when you find this person, hold tight and do not ever let them go. It rarely happens. And you'll know it, because that is when you feel most alive. It's a pretty shitty world, no jokes. But you can be happy if you want to be."
Don't know who wrote these lines....but they touched me!
And when you find someone where it feels like the first time every time, don't let that go. Don't give up without a fight. To hell with anybody who makes you feel like you're ordinary. Don't waste your time. And I am not kidding, when you find this person, hold tight and do not ever let them go. It rarely happens. And you'll know it, because that is when you feel most alive. It's a pretty shitty world, no jokes. But you can be happy if you want to be."
Don't know who wrote these lines....but they touched me!
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